The First Step

Confuscious said that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. However before that step can be taken we must choose the destination that we wish to travel to. So as I step forward on my journey, I must decide where I want to go, and what is it that I hope to accomplish.

You might question why I would wish to make changes to a relationship that has few if any problems, and a marriage that already makes me happy. I not sure I understand it myself. There is a deep driving want to have my wife look upon me, and to see in her eyes a joy beyond description. A utter and profound happiness that stems from my involvement in her life.

Our marriage is currently good, better then I thought I would ever have, and I am more content in my life then I ever thought possible. It is not that my wife is unhappy, she seems to my eyes to enjoy our life as much as I do. Rather it is the thought that we have but one life to live, should we not then live it to it's fullest?

I wish to make her happy. This thought more then anything tumbles over and over through my head. The problem is my good intentions and thoughts do nothing to show my wife how much I truly love and care for her, this is what I want to change. So the first step; what are my goals with this journey and this blog?

My goal is simple, it is to make my wife happy. I believe love is like a bank, marriage too, and each day you can deposit into it, or withdraw something out. My goal with this journey is to each day deposit something into this bank. When all is said and done I wish my wife's bank to be the richest in the world. I think it starts with each day, and the small little things that can be done. So my first step is to do something each day, to create one habit at a time that adds something to this bank that is our marriage.

The blog is here to keep me honest, to chronicle and encourage my journey towards this path I have choosen. It is here to allow me to read and reflect back on where I have been and the successes and failures as I tread this way.

The goal of it all, to make her happy